Connection of us

Do you ever think about how the right way to build a wellness relationship with the other half? The "wellness" could be defined as many ways. However, in my way, a wellness relationship might reveal someone attitudes and behaviors to each other. I have ever asked my mom about this question. She answered me with two words which were "sincere" and "love". Actually I was shocked and surprised why the answer could be so easy that I never think of it before. She added one, everyone willing to come to you because they could "detect" the sense of sincere from you. Then, the love could connect us together.
However, most of people includes me perhap do not know about the love used to connect us together but there does not mean no obstacles to cause us disconnect then. That's also why divorce never stopped to happen around us. If I say, nowadays love could be included a lot of elements. Do you agree? For example, being accommodation is the basic necessary condition of love. If no one willing to accommodate to each other, means there is no love between them anymore. Therefore, we are the one who can change the direction of every matter going to. If you are self-important person, you would be hard to build a wellness relationship with the other half. This is truth, no doubt.