When I need you

We only think of ‘them’ when needed. There’s no doubt. Most of us tend to act like this way. Just like we only think of umbrella when raining. However, sometimes I feel like going to change this kind of perception in mind. This is because not every time we able to get them when we really needed. The ‘them’ could be something or someone. When you need something perhaps you may get it easily but in other way round, when you need someone to help you, this would be hardly to say ‘yes’. For instance, the ‘someone’ you never try to know but you desires he or she may help you?! No way, there’s no such easy deal. They are not necessary to help you to do anything unless they willing to do that. That’s why I say; do not try to utilize anyone in life. Perhaps they might help you once but no more next time. Or you are used to treat ‘them’ nicely all the way, and once you need helps from them then would be easier for sure.  

Adorable language

Dialect is very interesting and unique language. Unfortunately, nowadays people seldom been used to speak dialect with each other. Some of my friends have told me they used to speak Mandarin at home. Or because of always watching HongKong drama and movie cause them know to speak Cantonese fluently. By the way, most of them are not Cantonese but Hokkien, Hakka or Teochew. How strange. So I think they are mostly affected by media rather than other sources. However for my situation, I have slightly different with them. I know to speak Hokkien fluently but actually my native is Teochew.  This is because there are mostly Hokkien people in my birth place which mean my hometown and also my living place. That’s why my family and I used to speak Hokkien rather than Teochew at home. Therefore, besides Teochew, Hokkien is considered as one of my dialect to me in life.

Perhaps some of them actually know the way to speak dialect but then they are not really willing speak to others. I wonder why they act so. However, I used to speak dialect to my family, it make me even comfortable. But among friends, I mostly tend to speak Mandarin or English rather than using dialect. I don’t know why, maybe I’ve classified as dialect been used to talk to family or relatives while Mandarin or English used to talk to others. However, if someone talks to me dialect could make me feel so warm and I would immediately think of my family, relatives and hometown. I think this actually so-called unexplainable familiar with that feeling. How do you think about it?!

BFF

Friend is not easy to get but not that hard as well. That needs to depend on you. Or I should say depend on your luck and fate. Someone I knew, she’s talkative person, that’s why she owns a lot of friends. However, she told me actually there no one is her true friend. I wondered why she said so. She said, there no one could make her share everything includes secret or privacy. She has experienced before, betrayed by someone that she treated as her ‘best friend’. Finally, she was heartbroken. And start from that day, she not really rely on friend. However, she envies me because even I have no many friends as her but at least I own some true friends. As I know, nowadays actually quite suffer to do anything without helping from friends. There has a famous quotation “rely on family when you’re at home but rely on friends when you’re at outside”. It’s true actually especially for those who are working or studying and staying away from home. Because of them perhaps you’re never feeling alone anymore.

Actually I have classified my friends into few groups like travelling partners, working partners, studying partners, entertaining partners, classmates and soul mates. They actually are fulfilling my life with a lot of funniness and cheerfulness. They let me experienced a lot that I could not able to experience with family or oneself. Perhaps sometimes we angry or argue with each other, but after overcome all the matters, our friendship even tough than previously. That would be one part of my memories in life. So, I’d appreciate it all the way.  

Exceptional Function

If you own exceptional function, how do you think about it? Sometimes, I wonder are there anyone here own this kind of capability in this world? If I really have it, how I would to do? Perhaps you may think I am crazy person. But then I have to admit I got it actually. There is no doubt. I realize I have the “sixth sense” to sense what will happen in next.  I don’t you guys have ever seen the scene or situation that you dreamed before. Just like, what I dreamed before maybe happen someday soon in my life. However, I’ve experienced it before. For instance, have a place that I never been there before but I know there. How amazing. This was because I’ve dreamed about the place by few weeks ago. The place seems so familiar to me. Although I never been there.

Or sometimes, I could even know what will happen next like what you going to tell me after this sentence. I seem like got the “sixth sense” to tell me what will be going next. However, I can’t to confirm about these all come from my dreams because normally we unable to recall what you’ve dreamed by last night, right? So I called this exceptional function as the “sixth sense”. And I always heard from people said woman’s sixth sense is so accurate, how do you think? By the way, I think they messed up direct sense with sixth sense, right?! Because actually there have big different between them.

Connection of us

Do you ever think about how the right way to build a wellness relationship with the other half? The "wellness" could be defined as many ways. However, in my way, a wellness relationship might reveal someone attitudes and behaviors to each other. I have ever asked my mom about this question. She answered me with two words which were "sincere" and "love". Actually I was shocked and surprised why the answer could be so easy that I never think of it before. She added one, everyone willing to come to you because they could "detect" the sense of sincere from you. Then, the love could connect us together.
However, most of people includes me perhap do not know about the love used to connect us together but there does not mean no obstacles to cause us disconnect then. That's also why divorce never stopped to happen around us. If I say, nowadays love could be included a lot of elements. Do you agree? For example, being accommodation is the basic necessary condition of love. If no one willing to accommodate to each other, means there is no love between them anymore. Therefore, we are the one who can change the direction of every matter going to. If you are self-important person, you would be hard to build a wellness relationship with the other half. This is truth, no doubt.

Horoscope not used to scope

People surround me used to investigate their fortune by horoscope. As I know, horoscope decided by
accordingly to the day of your birth. Somehow, I do not exactly rely on horoscope. Horoscope seems like precise for those who really believe on it. Agree? Just like my friends who always keep following what will happen next probably concern about their horoscope. However, this doesn't work for me. This is because I do not think each horoscope used to be quite accurate to know about each person from the same horoscope. For instance, I have some friends who same horoscope with me but we own different characteristics, interests or believes in life. This mean there is no anything linking us even though we are from the same horoscope. Eventually, most of the time I believe on my mind rather than what horoscope I belong to.

Deadline used to kill me....

Somtimes I really rely on "mood" to do things. The "mood" could be defined as an inspiration to urge me. However, doing works with inspiration mostly come with the reault that is truly what I expected to achieve. Just like yesterday I have completed my art works within 10 hours non-stop and the result of art works that I definitely satisfied with. This was because I have the "mood" for doing my works. As normal, I need to spend more than 10 hours to complete it and the outcome not exactly that I satisfied and yet forced to redo it again and again. Therefore, I realize complete tasks with "mood" is my own style which able to inspire me doing work perfectly. That's why deadline so-called as one kind of weapon that used to kill me in my studying and working life.